Navigating Tough Emotions in Real Time
Recognize the emotion, allow it to be present, investigate its felt sense, and nurture yourself with a kind phrase. Liam used RAIN during a commute panic, placing a palm on his chest and whispering, “I’m here.” His breath steadied within minutes.
Navigating Tough Emotions in Real Time
Silently label what you feel: “I’m noticing anxiety,” or “I feel disappointment.” This simple act recruits the prefrontal cortex, cooling emotional intensity. Try it during conflict and observe your tone shift. Share a moment when naming softened the surge.